Couples go through different phases and sometimes get stuck in one of them, leading to frustration, anger, and hopelessness. This may be the time when couples seek therapy; other times, help is requested after having experienced a betrayal of trust, a lifestyle transition such as a new child or a move, or when becoming empty nesters. Fortunately, some couples choose to seek help early on when they begin experiencing difficulties, often in communicating effectively with each other.
Most people get married with the expectation of being in a lifelong partnership with that special person who seems just right for them. However, between 40 and 50 percent of marriages end in divorce; while some couples choose not to end the relationship, they may remain in a marriage that is frustrating, conflicted, and devitalized.
I offer a non-judgmental and emotionally safe environment where couples can become aware of their relationship dynamics that perpetuate conflict and help them find new ways of relating to each other. I offer new ways of looking at their problems while exploring relevant historical issues that may be contributing to them. Couples address important topics using intentional dialogue, which includes expressing one’s perspective and listening to understand that of their partner. With greater understanding and empathy, conflict can become a great pathway toward connection. There is no perfect person or couple but the desire to understand and grow can lead to transforming the relationship into a more conscious and fulfilling partnership.
If you would like to learn more about Imago Relationship therapy, in which I am certified, please visit Imago Relationships Worldwide